Reaching higher state in love

Higher state in love is a very pure state which is achieved very less number of lovers in this world. Only few great lovers in previous centuries are available to attain this height in this world. Reaching higher states in love is also similar to reaching higher state in meditation and therefore lot of concentration in love is required to achieve all this. Lovers are required to have lot of trust on their love for achieving this height. Today, it is very difficult to find this kind of trust in present generation of lovers. Today, lovers are more interested in their own personal lives then in the lives of their lovers. This is right sign and show degradation in our value system.